Why do girls fall for assholes who cheat on 5 other women at the same time?

Why are some guys such players?

Y'all know the guy who has one too many girls, the sweet talker who always catches your eyes but also breaks your heart, now as time evolves so do they and its getting harder and harder to recognize them. 

Situation 1 : 

You went out as a friend. He said he didn't want to get involved. His reasons are his own whether they are true or not but he doesn't owe you anything or an explanation. He's not taken anything from you nor does he owe you anything. [ PLAYA! ]

Situation 2 :

These guys do not want to get attached by any means, as if he's vague and exclusive. If at a point you asked a question and you got the response and your reaction is (huh,what or raised eyebrows) trust me that was exactly the intention! [ PLAYA! ]

Situation 3 :

Every time you two are together, his phone is always on silent or vibrate. [ PLAYA! ]

Situation 4 :

So his female friends call often and they hang out way more than you two do. [ PLAYA! ]

Situation 5 :

If he acts like an angel. No man is perfect and any normal person knows that. A regular trying guy will embraces his flaws and try to adjust them if there's not up to your liking. But if your guy acts as if he's perfect and does every single thing  you need and always at all times makes you happy over himself trust, as good as it sound its not real ladies, its only an illusion. [ PLAYA! ]

Ladies if more than one of these points fits your guys actions it's time to get serious and ask yourself if you really want to sit back and avoid these signs. Just drop him like the loser he has proven himself to be and look for someone better. Men probably say that where exactly do you think it's written that people need to answer to you for their choices in life, just because his actions and choices don't please you gives you no rights whatsoever? Kan? You aren't his mother or father? (Mather Father GENTLEMAN tuuttuttuututtu I know it's not funny hehe) Or maybe on the bright side men would say, "Tons of guys seem like players, but really they just have trouble finding who they really like, and what they really feel." or "Guys want to feel wanted it's all part of the game girls do it too, just play along." 

I'm not looking for some smartass answer. I want the psychological reasoning. I just wanna know what makes them act like that. Are they insecure? Are they easily bored? Do they see any harm in what they're doing? I wanna know.

This doesn't mean I think all men are the same, it just means I'm better off without someone like that in my life. We need to remember everyone is entitled to a life and if that doesn't suit your needs and requirements maybe you need to remember the world doesn't revolve around you! Some men are players, others aren't. And I don't really know the answer to that question,

Having some "me" time.

         A loner; someone who spends the majority of their time alone, the type of people to hang by themselves with the computer & surf the internet, or picking up a good urban fiction book, usually shy and soft-spoken, one-of-a-kind, have many hidden talents, & adding a bit of mystery to their personality by walking alone. I'm a loner. Not that I'm saying that I have no friends or am not socializing well (I have some small group of friends that I hang out but often) but I'd prefer to be alone, most of the time. I don't know why, but I feel like it is not a bad thing and that I tend to enjoy it sometimes. Being a loner is a mixed blessing, I mean I enjoy people up to a certain degree but I like the independence and the fact that I don't always need to cling with other people around myself all the time. I think nowadays, every independent woman would prefer doing that, shop alone, and stuffs. I eat alone at restaurants at times myself and I don't see that the waiter's or anyone's staring at me like I'm a loser having to be my problem?! I do not have to ‘report back’ to anyone. I can go wherever I want without asking permission. I have the privilege to choose how to spend my time, wayyy better I'd save a lot of my time because I don't have to wait for people etc, I could focus on my life even better, crystallize my goals etc. And not having to care much of others feelings including my feelings, would be the best part. A deep thinker like me especially when I was alone stuck in the traffic, my mind may go beyond the space, turn back & forth from a fairy tales and seems to drive me crazy on my future. *if not I wouldn't have called me a world class dreamer. Haha. For me the sweetest thing for the end of the day is to reach home and stay cool in peace, and believe me this is the ideal way to live. I realized I am okay being a loner and I like it better this way. That comes with growing up, your personality starts shaping, some doesn't start the adventure of finding their own identity, others do.

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